Treatment of the problem premature ejaculation


TREATMENT OF THE PROBLEM PREMATURE EJACULATION


Introduction:

Consultation to an experienced doctor is very essential if there is problem of premature ejaculation. Treatment of this disease is possible after consulting to a doctor whether the cause of this disease is physical or mental. If a doctor advice to do any kind of check up, the patient should do it immediately. If the cause of this problem is physical, start treatment according to the doctor or the cause of it is mental, adopt those tips as the doctor advices. A patient of this disease will get rid of this problem gradually by following the tips explained by doctor. Besides it, a man will get rid of this problem named premature ejaculation itself if he adopts some formulae.    

  • When a man feels that he is about to ejaculate while making sexual relation and he has no control over it and semen ejaculates though he does not want to ejaculate, he should not give pressure to suppress ejaculation of semen forcibly because sexual excitement of the woman reduces by doing so. Arousal of sexual urge of a woman is very essential to make sexual relation because doing so is considered the beginning of sexual intercourse and it has an important place in sexual intercourse. Sometimes, mind and body of a woman do not get ready soon for sexual relation like a man. Therefore, a woman has to prepare for sexual relation with the help of fore play. A man should kiss on the lips of woman and embrace her in his arms closely. He should touch her body with his hands gently and lovingly. He should fondle and press her breast. These are the ways to excite a woman for sexual intercourse. A man becomes more excited than the woman does while doing such activities. The victim of premature ejaculation should not play for long time with the sensitive body organs of the woman because many men ejaculate semen without inserting the penis into the vagina while some men ejaculate semen while inserting the penis into the vagina.  Therefore, the patients of premature ejaculation should not play for long time with the body organs of the woman if they do not want to make the victim of premature ejaculation. They should establish sexual relation soon. 
  • When a man plays with the body organs of a woman, he wants the same things to his wife. He wants that his wife should touch to his penis too. If a man is not the victim of premature ejaculation, everything is good but if he is the victim of premature ejaculation, it can be very harmful for him. A man gets orgasm when a woman touches his penis with her soft and tender hands or plays with the penis. The patient of premature ejaculation ejaculates semen when a woman behaves as mentioned above. A woman plays with his genitals when he says to her to do so. if the man is the victim of this disease, he should not try to remain far from such kinds of activities.  
  • The man should not start the process of stroking just after inserting the penis into the vagina. He should not penetrate his penis into the deepness of the vagina in the beginning. He should keep his weight on his both elbows and become lazy after penetrating his penis into the vagina. Semen of some men ejaculates because of the heat of the vagina just after the penetration of the penis into the vagina. Hence, a man should not start the process of stroking just after the insertion of penis into the vagina. Besides it, the man should not insert his penis into the deepness of the vagina.
  • The man should start the process of stroking after becoming cool of the body. The process of stroking should not be done rapidly but it should be done gently and slowly. Start counting of the number just after inserting the penis into the vagina and stop after some time for a moment to give relaxation to the body and restart the process of stroking. Process of stroking should be done by counting the number 1, 2-1-2 gently and slowly. The man should never adopt hurriedness while establishing sexual relation otherwise; he can become the victim of premature ejaculation.     
  • Speed of breathing while establishing sexual relation is very beneficial. Sometimes, it seems that ejaculation time is near after one or two strokes. If it is so, let the body loose at once. Thereafter, inhale deep breath as much as a man can do. He should try to fill his lungs with oxygen properly. Thereafter, the man should try to stop his breath for sometime and then he should exhale breath gradually. After that, lungs should be depleted completely but breath should not be inhaled soon. Stay in this condition for some time and thereafter inhale breath deeply and try to stop breath for sometime. Exhale breath again like before. Do this process three four times. Sexual excitement and sexual urge of man reduces to some extant by doing so.     
  • If a man feels excessive sexual excitement or sexual urge, he should try to contract his muscles of ureter as much as he can by making his body inactive. Sometimes, a man has no control over the contraction of muscles of anus and testicles if velocity of stool or urine is too much fast but often a man keeps on trying to contract the region between anus and testicles. In the same way, he should try to contract his muscles. Besides it, he should have full control over his breath too while making sexual relation. Hence, take deep breath as much as a man can do and this breath should stop for sometime.     
  • Many men start to touch or play with the body of women just after inserting the penis into the vagina. They want same reaction to their wives too. Here it means to say that they want that their wives may play with them and talk about sex as they play with the women. According to them, penis becomes more excited by doing these things and they get real sexual pleasure. It is natural with a fully healthy man but it is not good for the patient of premature ejaculation. Sometime, a man ejaculates soon by involving in vulgar conversation.
  • Expel away all the salacious things from the mind when a man feels that ejaculation period is near. The man should divert his mind towards another direction. Love talking should be done with the woman by the man during this period. Such conversation should have no relation with stimulating things. Body should be loose fully by the man and he should not try to play with the body organs of the woman.
  • The man should try to penetrate his penis into the deepness of the vagina during the process of stroking. He should penetrate his penis into the depth of the vagina as much as he can. The penis will keep on lying inactive as much as the body of a man remains inactive. If a man wants to avoid from the process of stroking, he should stroke the root of his penis to the vagina two or four times. The penis will become excited by doing so. The man should his body loose as the penis gets erection in his penis.
  • The woman should on top while making sexual relation. This sexual technique is considered good for the patients of premature ejaculation. In this technique, sexual relation is made by the woman and she remains on top. Appropriate physical reunion between man and woman is very essential to adopt this technique. When the man feels excessive excitement in his penis, he should say to his wife to stop playing with his body. The woman should adopt the order of her husband. If the man strokes once or twice in the stage of excessive excitement, getting control over ejaculation becomes very difficult.
  • Some sex scholars say that drawing out of the penis from the vagina for some time in the stage of excessive excitement proves very beneficial. The penis should insert into the vagina after sometime when excitement of the penis reduces to some extant. While doing so the penis should not be inserted into the deepness of the vagina.
  • Light should not be switched on while making sexual relation in the room. It should be darkness in the room. Many men and women become too much sexually excited by seeing each other’s nude body but the woman does not become as much excited as the man does. 
  • A man plats with the breast of the woman while making sexual relations. Many men suck the breast of women and play with them. They get excessive pleasure and excitement while playing with the breast of women. Patients of premature ejaculation should try to avoid from such kinds of activities. Therefore, they should not play with the breast of women for longtime because it will prove very beneficial for them.
  • The man should pay attention on the time too. He should try to know how much time he has involved in sexual intercourse today. Thereafter, he should establish sexual relation again and he should pay attention that he may have involved in sexual intercourse as much time as before. Follow this formula for one month regularly and keep on writing the time for his remembrance. This thing will describe how the stage of sexual intercourse is. Some scholars say that how many times he has stroked in the vagina with his penis and he should note down this thing to in the diary too for one month regularly.  However, this thing is not just, because period of stopping semen from ejaculation is important in the disease named premature ejaculation. These things should be recalled at the time of sexual intercourse. If a man makes sexual relation for 5 minutes in the beginning, this period will reach on 6-7 minutes after some days. If a man ejaculates within two minutes, there is no need to be worried to the man because of this reason. 
  • Many men say that victims of premature ejaculation can get rid of this disease by adopting masturbation. Either the man should masturbate himself or he can make masturbate by his wife. He should stimulate to his wife to masturbate by holding his penis. The man should masturbate until his sexual excitement becomes high. When the man feels that he is about to ejaculate, he should say to stop the process of masturbation. Restart this process after getting cool of the sexual excitement. When the man feels that ejaculation cannot be suppressed for long time, he should ejaculate his semen out. There is no need to be worried about it. A man can learn how to control over ejaculation of semen.
  • Often, it has been observed that if a man ejaculates soon, both husband and wife try to sleep in dejection by taking side. This kind of behavior is not good according to the scholars of sex. Many men think that a man should make sexual relation again after premature ejaculation once. This time a man can take more time in establishing sexual relation than before. It is said that a woman gets sexual pleasure soon when sexual relation is made again in a night. On the contrary, a man ejaculates semen after sometime. By adopting this formula, a man can control over premature ejaculation. In this way, a woman gets sexual satisfaction and she becomes satisfied while making sexual relation.

By adopting these formulae along with strong mind, a man can control over the premature ejaculation. Many times, a man becomes the victim of premature ejaculation because of any kind of injury or mental tension too. A man should not be disturbed in this case and he should not spend his money and time by going to the hakims and fake doctors. Such kinds of fake doctors and hakims try to snatch money from the pedestrians too. They give wrong medicines to the victims and create other kinds of mental tensions too.

A woman or a wife is as valuable and important for the treatment of any kind of sexual disease as a doctor is. When both husband and wife take sexual pleasure while establishing sexual relation, they should try to find out the treatment and remedy of any kind of sexual disease. Mostly, it has been observed that a man who is the victim of premature ejaculation changes his behavior towards his wife suddenly. Some women realize their husband about the weakness produced because of this disease.  Sometimes, a woman stimulates her husband or sometimes she makes fun of her husband in such kind of condition.   

In this way, condition of the victim becomes worse day by day. In this kind of situation, the woman should support of her husband completely. She should advise her husband to consult to an experienced doctor. She should support of her husband while adopting remedies as mentioned above. If the woman loves her husband very much and support of her husband by good behavior, the victim of this disease will get rid of this disease.  

The husband will have to behave normally with his wife. if he is the victim of premature ejaculation, he should think about its treatment soon. Sometimes, a man gets sexual satisfaction after the ejaculation of semen but the woman remains dissatisfied sexually. The woman has full right to get sexual satisfaction from her husband too. In this way, sexual satisfaction of a woman depends on the strength of her husband. Hence, a man should start treatment of his disease soon. Many men keeps on forwarding their sexual diseases continuously and they do not get treatment of the disease for many days. In this way, several other kinds of problems take birth too. Nowadays, no disease or problem is cureless. Both husband and wife should think about their responsibilities and try to get pay attention towards it.    

Premature ejaculation

Introduction:-

What is premature ejaculation? At present, mostly young men and people of all the ages are aware about it. Premature ejaculation means emission of semen soon. Often, this problem takes birth in young age but in this present age, old men also have been suffering from this age. Every man wants sexual intercourse for long time. There is a feeling in the mind of a man that if he ejaculates soon, the woman will not get great sexual pleasure during sexual intercourse. Because of this reason, a man becomes the victim of inferior complexity. Several kinds of doubts and misconceptions take birth in the mind of a man if he is the victim of premature ejaculation.  

Mostly men consider that they are impotent and feel inferior complexity if they are the victim of premature ejaculation but this kind of thinking is not good. Premature ejaculation is a common disease nowadays. Now, about 80 percent men have been suffering from this disease because of any reason. They become the victim of premature ejaculation many time while establishing sexual relation.      

There are two causes of premature ejaculation:-

1.    Semen of some men ejaculates before inserting the penis into the vagina. It is the first reason.

2.    Semen of many men ejaculates just after inserting the penis into the vagina. This is the second reason of premature ejaculation. 

Causes of both the kinds of ejaculation of semen are mentally. Many times, physical problems along with mental problems can be the cause of premature ejaculation.

Some causes of premature ejaculation are as weakening of the tip of the penis of ureter, any kind of problem in the ureter, disease in the gland of the man and physical problem. Fear of first meeting after marriage, no sexual intercourse for long time, incomplete sex knowledge, lack of woman’s support while making sexual relation, establishment of sexual relation with fear, sexual intercourse on a noisy place, sexual intercourse on open place as park or jungle, establishment of sexual relation stealthily, having doubt on the wife by husband, mental problem or making sexual relation after getting tired, establishing sexual relation hurriedly and mental problems. These are the other cause of premature ejaculation.    

On the contrary, habitual of masturbation adopt this disease too because glans of the penis becomes too much sensitive because of masturbation repeatedly. In this way, semen ejaculates as the penis touches the vagina of the woman. A habitual of masturbation wants to get sexual pleasure soon.

There are some contradictory things between sexual intercourse and masturbation. A man holds his penis with his hand softly but he keeps on tightening his grip of his hand as he reaches towards orgasm. On the contrary, vagina of a woman is tight in the beginning and it gets looseness as the woman reaches on the last stage of sexual intercourse. In this way, when the penis of a habitual of masturbation touches to the tight vagina, they become the victim of premature ejaculation.  In this way, we can say that there is a big difference between sexual intercourse and masturbation.

          Many times, a man makes sexual relation after long time and this is the reason that they become the victim of premature ejaculation. If a man makes sexual relation again after sometime, he gets too much sexual excitement during sexual intercourse. In this way, a terrified man becomes the victim of premature ejaculation. If a man is too much sexually excited, he can also become the victim of premature ejaculation.  

Here one example has been given in this respect. A man was thinking in his leisure time that he would make sexual relation after reaching his beloved or wife. In this stage, the man keeps on thinking about sexual intercourse continuously. When the woman or beloved reaches there, he makes sexual relation with her because of excessive sexual excitement. There is big doubt of premature ejaculation of semen because of the hurriedness of the man. This is the reason that he ejaculates soon when he inserts his penis into the vagina of his wife or beloved. In this way, such kind of man becomes the patient of premature ejaculation.

Some tips to get rid of this problem:-

  • A man of any age can become the victim of premature ejaculation. None can get rid of this disease by the use of oils, ointment and medicine prepared by hakims and fake doctors. A man should remain far from hurriedness, mental disturbances and worries. He should try himself to get over this disease repeatedly. He should produce self-confidence and strength in himself repeatedly. In this way, the victim of premature ejaculation can get rid of this disease.   
  • Sexual relations should be made in good mental state and favorable atmosphere. The man should play with the sensitive body organs of the woman necessarily. If a man does so, a kind of excretion starts to be produced in the vagina of the woman. After that, penis can be inserted into the vagina easily.  
  • If you are the victim of premature ejaculation, the man should stop for sometime after inserting the penis into the vagina. During this period, the man should keep on touching and playing with the body organs of the woman. He can involve in the conversation with his wife on other topics too. In this way, sexual excitement of the brain reduces to some extant. Sensitive organs of the woman should be touched continuously by the woman while talking on the other topics. Thereafter, start the process of stroking into the vagina with the penis. After that, stop the process of stroking for sometime and try to divert mind on another subject. Thereafter, restart the process of stroking. By doing so, self-confidence of the victim and period of sexual intercourse enhance altogether very much.     
  • The victim of premature ejaculation should not stroke into the vagina forcibly during sexual intercourse. They should stroke with his penis into the vagina gently and slowly. The man should stroke gently.
  • The man should excite his wife properly for sexual intercourse so that the penis may enter into the vagina easily. The vagina becomes wet and loose if she is aroused by the man after playing her sensitive body organs. 
  • If the man feels that ejaculation period is near, he should stop for sometime. He should not move his penis at this time. he should inhale breath deeply and thereafter, exhale breath gently and slowly. In this way, the mind of a man will divert completely from the sexual intercourse. Sexual excitement will reduce too much in this way. Thus, a man will take long time in ejaculation.
  • The man should lie flatly. Thereafter, the woman should make sexual relation by sitting over the man. The penis faces fewer strokes if sexual relation is made in this way. Thus, period of sexual intercourse will enhance very much. This kind of sexual intercourse will provide excessive sexual pleasure. The woman should stop the process of stroking when the man says about it. The man should talk to the woman on different topic during this period. Do not pay attention towards sexual intercourse at any rate.
  • A victim of premature ejaculation can get rid of this problem if his wife supports him properly. The woman should praise her husband while making sexual intercourse. This thing enhances self-confidence of a man and the man makes sexual relation properly. 
  • If a man is the victim of premature ejaculation, he should produce self-confidence in him. He should think that he would satisfy his wife during sexual intercourse because he has the capacity to do so. If he thinks in this way, he can establish sexual relation properly.
  • If glans of the penis is too much sensitive, he should make sexual relation by adopting condom. In this way, the glans of the penis faces fewer strokes while sexual intercourse and he will not become the victim premature ejaculation.
  • If glans of the penis is too much sensitive, they should adopt double condoms before inserting the penis into the vagina. In this way, there is no doubt of premature ejaculation.
  • If glans of the penis is too much sensitive, the man should wrap tissue paper at the glans of the penis before covering condom. Thereafter, he should involve in sexual intercourse. The penis will face fewer strokes while sexual intercourse. In this way, the man will not become the victim of premature ejaculation.   
  • If glans of the penis is sensitive very much, the man should sprinkle telecom powder on the glans of the penis. Then make sexual relation by covering condom on the erect penis. In this way, the penis faces fewer strokes during sexual relation and the man does not become the victim of premature ejaculation. 

Psychological therapy:-

          Main treatment of premature ejaculation is psychological. Hence, both husband and wife should support to each other in this situation. Therefore, two methods have been giving here.

1.    Semaans method

2.    . squeegee method

Semaans method:

This method has been described as a very useful method to get rid of premature ejaculation. There are three techniques of it, which have been given here.

First technique:-

The man should lie flatly on the bed. Thereafter, the woman should sit between the both legs of the man in this way that she may touch and fondle the penis and testicles of the man properly.  The woman should fondle and touch the genitals of the man gently and slowly. If the man feels that semen is about to ejaculate, he should say to his wife to stop the process of fondling of the penis and testicles. This kind of process should be adopted many times. The man should pay too much attention on one thing that this technique has been using by him only to get rid of premature ejaculation. By adopting the first technique, the man will feel confidence in him and he can control the ejaculation of semen soon.

Second technique:-

After two or three weeks of completing the first technique, the man should start second technique. To start this technique, the man should lie on his back in a flat position. Thereafter, the woman should arouse the penis of the man by the process of fondling. After that, the woman should make sexual relation on the opposite side. Here it means to say that the woman should keep her vagina on the penis and try to absorb the penis into her vagina. One thing should be remembered necessarily that there should be no stroke while doing so. The man should keep on lying on his back by closing eyes and he should try to touch the body of the woman. He should say to his wife to remove backwardly as he feels that ejaculation of semen is close. This technique should be adopted again after cooling the excitement of the penis. This technique should be adopted repeatedly. Thereafter, the woman should start the process of stroking to the ejaculation of semen. Follow this process for many weeks continuously.    

Third technique:-

To adopt third technique, sexual relation should be made in an opposite way. Thereafter, strokes should be started gently and slowly. The man should keep his hand on the loin of the woman while stroking. When the man feels about ejaculation of semen, he should hint to the woman to stop the process of stroking with the hand kept on the loin of the woman. After sometime, when the man feels that there is no fear of ejaculation of semen, he should say to the woman to start the process of stroking again. Do this process many times. Thereafter, the woman should start the process of stroking in a fast motion to ejaculate the semen of her husband. The victim of premature ejaculation will get rid of this problem soon by following the process mentioned above. 

Squeegee method:-

This method resembles with semans method. There is minute difference between the two. In this method, the man should lie on his back flatly. The woman should arouse the penis of her husband with her hands. She should fondle the penis properly for sometime. The man should inform to his wife when he may feel that ejaculation of semen is near. Thereafter, the woman should press the glans of the penis with the help of fingers and thumb properly. In this way, excitement of the penis will reduce to some extant.

After sometime, the woman should start above-mentioned process again viz she should try to excite the penis of her husband by taking in her hand. She should try to cool the excitement of the penis by pressing the glans of the penis with the help of fingers and thumb. This method should be done many times. A man victim of premature ejaculation will get rid of this disease soon.

Some homely remedies:-

Acacia Arabica:-

Take the panchang of acacia arabica (flower, leaves, fruit, gum and bark) each in equal quantity. Dry these things and grind properly. Thereafter, fill this preparation in any clean bottle of glass. Take one spoon this preparation in the morning and one spoon in the evening with cold water. A man gets rid of the problem of premature ejaculation if he takes this medicine only two months regularly.

Liquorice:-

Take asparagus 200 grams, liquorice 50 grams and winter cherry 100 grams. Grind all these things properly and fill in a bottle of glass after filtering through cloth. Take half spoon this powder in the morning and half spoon in the evening with sweet milk. Its use gets rid a man from the problem named premature ejaculation.

Caraway:-

Take winter cherry, caraway and cobra saffron each 50 grams. Grind all these things properly and filter through a fine cloth. Fill this preparation in a neat bottle of glass. A man should take half gram this powder with light hot milk in the morning. Its use gets rid of a man from the problem named premature ejaculation.

Ground sugar candy:-

Mix half spoon ground caraway in one spoon sugar candy after drying properly. Take this preparation with light hot milk in the morning and evening. A man gets rid of premature ejaculation after the use of this medicine.

Ground coriander:-

Mix 100 grams fine powder of coriander with equal amount of ground sugar candy properly. Fill this preparation in a neat and clean bottle of glass. This powder should be taken on empty stomach in the morning. Besides it, one spoon this powder should be taken with one glass of whey. A man does not become the victim of premature ejaculation after the use of this medicine.