PREMATURE EJACULATION


PREMATURE EJACULATION


Introduction:-

The disease named premature ejaculation has been taking several young men in its grip like an epidemic disease. This disease is proving harmful not only physically but also mentally. To know is very essential what the premature ejaculation is in real. Several young men become terrified by hearing the name of premature ejaculation. All the men, who ejaculate soon during sexual intercourse, think that they can never satisfy their wives in life and they cannot give too much sexual pleasure to their wives. Many young men become disturb whether they will become the father of a child or not. Such kinds of several questions keep on being produced in their mind when they become the victim of premature ejaculation. Young men should know the fact that a man ejaculate within some minutes. No man takes half or one hour in ejaculating. A man ejaculates within some minutes whether he is a wrestler or completely healthy.

Some men boast that they did not ejaculate for long time while making sexual relation with their wives. When a man makes sexual relation with his wife after hearing the boastful thing from his friend, he feels that he ejaculates very soon. In this way, he thinks that he has become the victim of premature ejaculation.  

          In real, when a man penetrates his penis into the vagina of his wife and starts the process of stroking, he ejaculates about within half or one minute. Some men make sexual relation for long time and then ejaculate but they ejaculate within 4-5 minutes too.

Knowledge:-

Closing stage of anything is attached to our mental state necessarily. If a boy goes to meet a girl and he remains with the girl whole day but when in the evening the girls says to go, the boy feels that his girlfriend came before sometime and now time is over. This thing happens with joys and sorrows in our life. If a man is happy, time passes rapidly with the help of wings but if misfortune falls over a person, every moment passes as a decade. These things apply on the ejaculation of semen too. a man involves in the process of stroking after inserting his  penis into the vagina while making sexual relation. At this time, he absorbs into great pleasure and joy too much and he pay no attention towards time. A minute seems to him as a moment. From this time, a man starts to think that he is the patient of premature ejaculation. All the men who ejaculate after half minutes, they should understand properly that they have no problem and they are fully healthy.   

Truth about premature ejaculation:-

 We came to know at this moment when a man should not think ejaculation as a disease named premature ejaculation. Now question arises here who is the real patient of premature ejaculation and what the premature ejaculation is in reality. When many men make sexual relation with women, they ejaculate semen while inserting the penis into the vagina. Some men ejaculate semen as they touch the penis with the vagina and many men ejaculate during foreplay. Such kinds of men can be called the patient of premature ejaculation in true meaning.  

Causes of premature ejaculation:- 

  • Constant thinking about sexual intercourse and premature ejaculation is closely attached. When a man touches the age of puberty, he starts to think about a girl or about sexual relation with the girl by watching a girl on television screen or in his locality. He thinks that he touches her body, presses her breast if the girl is present here. In this way, several kinds of salacious ideas strike in his mind. The penis of the boy becomes erect as he thinks about it and he holds the penis with his hand. This is the first ladder of the origin of the disease named premature ejaculation. When the boy lost in the dreams of the girl embraces her lips, presses her breast and kisses her in his imagination, he keeps on masturbating with hands gently but as he makes sexual relation with the girl in his imagination, he masturbates rapidly and in this way, he ejaculates. This thing clears that a man has full control over the ejaculation of semen. He ejaculates on the time when he wants to ejaculate or desires for ejaculation. 
  • Many young men make sexual relation with aged women who are too much sexually excited. Such kinds of women excite the young men very much during foreplay and the men ejaculates just after inserting the penis into the vagina or while inserting the penis into the vagina. In this way, they become cool soon. If the penis of such kinds of man gets erection again, they become unable to have control over the excitement of the penis. The same condition happens with them after marriage too. When they make sexual relation with their wives on the first time after marriage, they ejaculate soon and this thing creates several kinds of problems. 
  • Besides it, there is another condition too. Sometimes, a man loves a woman very much and he has to remain far from her because of any reason but he keeps on absorbing in her memories and kisses or presses her breast in his imagination. He keeps on thinking about her and the penis of the man becomes erect but this erection of penis disappears as stops to thinking about the girl or other sex things. At this moment, he ejaculates his semen and this is point from where a man becomes the victim of premature ejaculation mentally.
  • Above-mentioned men are the men who became the patient of this disease because of their thinking. On the contrary, some men never think about women and make sexual relation in their imagination but they ejaculate semen as they touch the body of women. To know is very essential for such kinds of men that body of man is not a machine, which keeps on working without break. Human body wants relaxation too. a man ejaculates at that time because the body does not want to do excessive hard work viz process of stroking may not prolong its period. However, here we should not understand that ejaculation is associated with exhaustion. This is the process of change inside the body, which wants to provide relief to the body.
  • Mostly men are older to their wives at the time of marriage. For example if the wife is 20 years old, the age of her husband will be 32-32 years. Besides it, many men father of many children marry to the younger girls. Result of it is that attracting and charming body of the women excited them very much at the time of sexual intercourse. In this way, they ejaculate semen before inserting the penis into the vagina. This thing happens with them regularly. A man of this kind absorbs into the lap of sleeping but his wife keeps on agonizing whole night.
  • Sometimes, some men who have a lack of self-confidence keep on suspecting on their wives. Mostly such kinds of men live far from their wives in the matter of work. If the wife of such kind a man has good habit and behaves well with others, suspicion of the husband increases very much. The man keeps on disturbing about the character of his wife. In this stage, when he is making sexual relation with his wife, suspicions keep on striking in his mind continuously. In this way, he cannot establish sexual relation properly and become the victim of premature ejaculation.  
  • Many men have watched a woman in nude condition while bathing or changing clothes. At this time, sexual excitement increases very much in them. They start to think about sexual relation. A man of this kind cannot make sexual intercourse with the woman to whom he observed. In this case, he makes sexual relation with his wife but at this time, the exciting scene of the woman keeps on stimulating him continuously. This thing reacts on the body and nerves of the man. The result of it is that that a man ejaculates semen as he inserts his penis into the vagina.
  • Every one knows that shame and shyness of a woman disappears after making sexual relation with once or twice with a man. After that a woman, start to play with the penis of the man without hesitation. She holds and fondles the penis of the man. This activity of the woman excited a man very much because penis of a man is very sensitive organ of the body. if a man is the victim of this disease, he should say to his wife not to play with his penis by telling her the cause behind this thing. Rational women understand the feelings of a man because they know that this kind of activity will affect the activity of sexual intercourse. In this way, neither man nor woman will get the real sexual pleasure.
  • Nevertheless, some women keep on involving in such kinds of activities in spite of knowing the fact. They forget the thing told by their husbands. At this condition, a man should establish sexual relation cunningly. It is clear that as a man presses the breast of the woman as the woman plays or fondles with the penis of the man because she takes great pleasure in this job as the man takes in pressing the breast. The man should make sexual relation in a way that the hands of the woman may not reach to the penis of the man. The hands of the woman may press between the both hands of the man under the waist of the woman. A man should act in a way that the woman may forget to touch the penis of the man.
  • The most beneficial thing for a man is that many women play with the penis but they do not the technique. They hold, fondle, pat to the penis and touch the testicles. In these kinds of activities, the man faces no problem. The problem creates when a woman touches nude glans of the penis or kisses to the penis with her lips.
  • If a husband remains far from his wife for long time because of any work or other reasons, he does not make sexual relation with his wife during this period. However, when he makes sexual relation after returning, he is very much excited at that time. He ejaculates semen after three or four strokes by inserting the penis into the vagina. This condition can take birth repeatedly because of stopped sexual excitement. The man should not fear with this condition otherwise, this fear can sit in his mind.
  • A man becomes exhausted because of excessive burden of work or angry boss. He returns his home with dejection in his mind. He tells nothing if his wife asks him anything. Pressure of these things produces depression in his mind. When he sleeps with his wife at night, the wife wants to make sexual relation with him. The man gets ready to make sexual relation but outwardly not inwardly. The result of it is that his penis does not gets full erection and he ejaculates after three four strokes. If this thing happens regularly, the man becomes the victim of premature ejaculation.
  • Sometimes, foreplay before the sexual intercourse becomes the cause of premature ejaculation. Sexual excitement of a man becomes so high by kissing or sucking the lips of the woman that he ejaculates semen before inserting the penis into the vagina. Besides it, a man becomes the victim of ejaculation soon if he sucks the vagina or licks the labia majora of the woman with his tongue because these are the most sensitive organs of a woman and any kind of touch of these organs brings the stage of climax for both man and woman.  However, this stage makes a man the victim of premature ejaculation.
  • Many men want to adopt different kinds of sex techniques by watching pornographic movie or picture. They become very much sexually excited by observing the nudes scenes of the picture or movie. They ejaculate semen without penetrating penis into the vagina. Besides it, many men make sexual relation before a mirror and observe their sexual intercourse in the mirror. Nude body of the woman excite men very much and the ejaculate their semen without sexual intercourse.
  • Many men become excessive sexually excited by seeing the body of a woman in too much electric light. Sex organs of a woman are very salacious and too much electric light enhances their attractiveness. In this stage, when a man touches, fondles and presses the breast of the woman, he loses control over his sexual excitement completely. He penetrates his penis into the vagina hurriedly and ejaculates soon.    
  • Such kind of men who ejaculate soon, they should adopt opposite sexual techniques while making sexual relation. In this technique, the woman sits on the thighs of the man and starts the process of stroking on the penis with her vagina. in this stage, vagina of the woman, excited labia majora, pinky labia minora, excited clitoris, opening and contracting of the vagina makes a man very mcuh sexually excited and the man ejaculates after three of four strokes. This kind of technique should be done either in dim light or in darkness because too much electric light can be dangerous in this technique.   
  • Often, many young men have misconceptions about the size of the penis. Such kinds of men think that their penis is very small after seeing the long and thick penis in any magazine or movie. They become worried by thinking that how they will satisfy their wives during sexual intercourse. This thinking creates a feeling of inferior complexity and their self-confidence reduces. It is necessary to tell something to such kinds of men that the penis as they watch in movie are made long and thick with the help of technology. They should not create any kind of misconception in their mind about the size of the penis. Length and thickness of the penis of a man are not related to the sexual intercourse by any way. 
  • Women, who were got married against their wish, do not have good relation with their husbands. They show no interest in sexual relation with their husband and give no support to their husbands when their husbands make sexual relation with them. The husbands has to make sexual relation one sided because of which he becomes the victim of premature ejaculation. 
  • If a woman has been suffering from vaginismus, sexual relation with such kind of woman never proves successful. As a man inserts his penis into the vagina of woman, she starts to scream because of pain. The man draws out his penis from the vagina because of fear. If he tries to make sexual relation with the woman, the same thing takes birth again. At this condition, excitement of a man becomes cool and he ejaculates his semen without sexual intercourse. Pain in the vagina can be because of mental and physical reason. In many cases, a man starts to make sexual relation without sex knowledge. He penetrates his penis into the vagina of the woman without arousing a woman for sexual intercourse. When a man starts the process of stroking without arousing a woman, the woman starts to cry because of pain because the vagina is not wet at that time and this thing becomes the cause of pain.    
  • Many men affect very much because of any scent or fragrance. A man of this kind becomes restless because of the fragrance. Several men and women use different kinds of fragrances before establishing sexual relation. If a woman becomes too much excited after the use of fragrance, there is no need to be worried in this situation but if a man becomes too much sexually excited after the use of fragrance or scent, he ejaculates before starting the process of stroking. We can say that fragrance and scent can become an obstacle in the sexual pleasure or orgasm.    
  • As sexual excitement increases because of fragrance and scent as sexual excitement reduces or ends completely because of any kind of odor or bad smell. This bad odor may be of anything as odor of the mouth, sweating of the body, clothes or bed smell of the secretion of the vagina. In this situation, the penis of the man does not get full erection and early ejaculation becomes necessary. If a man smells bad, the woman does not feel sexual urge and a kind of hate takes birth in her mind towards her husband. Vagina of the woman becomes tight in this situation and if a man makes sexual relation with her, he ejaculates soon.
  • If both husband and wife have tasted the flavor of homosexuality before marriage, they show no interest towards opposite sex. Neither a man gets sexual pleasure nor he provides sexual pleasure to the woman. It is happens because they are too much interested in homosexuality. They show no interest in the sexual relation with opposite sex. If both husband and wife establish sexual relation against their wish, the woman becomes cool and the man ejaculate soon.    
  • If a married couple gets child after one year of marriage, they neither take great sexual pleasure nor do they involve in sexual intercourse. They fear lest the child should wake up when they are making sexual relation. In this situation, they want to end sexual intercourse soon. They do not put off their clothes completely before making sexual relation. The result of it is that sexual excitement cannot be produced properly and they start sexual intercourse. Both husband and wife remains keep on paying attention towards child whether the child is sleeping or not. Vagina of the woman does not become wet properly. In the lack of sexual excitement, a man does not penetrate his penis into the deepness of the vagina. Sometimes, the penis of the man does not get full erection. This is the reason that the man becomes ejaculate semen without satisfying his wife during sexual intercourse.

Some essential tips for the patients of premature ejaculation:-

  • The disease premature ejaculation is related to men but this disease affects both man and woman equally. Hence, wives of the patients of this disease should give full support to their husband so that they may get rid of this disease easily. Some essential tips have been given for women. A woman can cure the disease of her husband by following such tips, which have been given below.
  • Wives of the patients of this disease should behave normally with their husbands. One thing is quite true that a woman becomes disturbed mentally if her husband is the victim of premature ejaculation. In this situation, if the wife quarrels with her husband on tiny things and ignores her husband or makes fun of her husband’s masculinity, condition may become worse. The husband is already disturbed because of premature ejaculation and if his wife behaves with him rudely, he becomes very sad. This thing can worsen the situation too much.
  • Hence, when a woman feels that masculinity of her husband has been reducing day by day or her husband has becoming the victim of premature ejaculation, she should become careful very much. If this thing happens daily, she should talk to her husband about this matter lovingly. She should say to her husband to consult to a doctor about the disease. Burden of the anxiety will reduce to some extant from the mind of husband.  In this way, the husband will try to get rid of this problem soon.
  • Sometimes, a husband wants to make sexual relation with his during day but the woman does not give full support to her husband while making sexual relation during day. She says to her husband that she is not ready for it; someone will come; what will someone think by seeing the room closed during day; she has made sexual relation at night etc. generally such kinds of occasions happen rarely in which a husband wants to make sexual relation during day but sometimes, this condition is produced. A man wants to make sexual relation if his wife comes after bathing or she is getting ready to go in a party.
  • Appearance of the wife seems very attractive on such occasions. If the husband says to his wife to establish sexual relation, she should not reject her husband’s proposal but she should give full support of her husband while making sexual relation. On this occasion, a husband wants to press the breast of his wife or inserts his penis into the vagina. Sexual excitement of a man remains on climax at this time and this is the reason that the period of sexual intercourse is not long. A man ejaculates within one or two minutes if sexual relation is made in this situation. Both husband and wife get great as much sexual pleasure as they do not get at night while making sexual relation whether the sexual intercourse are too long.  
  • Such condition is considered very well for those men who are the victim of premature ejaculation. They get great sexual pleasure through this small trip of sexual intercourse on one hand. On the other hand, there is lack of sexual and mental excitement in man. One benefit of it is that the husband feels that he has made sexual relation for long time at night than the day. A wife can excite her husband for such kind of short sexual intercourse.
  • Premature ejaculation is the problem of man completely and this is the reason that he has to try repeatedly to get rid of this problem. A man should try to get rid of this problem as soon as it is possible. Each kind of sex problems has been divided into two parts-physical and mental. A man can get rid of physical problems after consulting to a doctor and by changing his behavior or thinking. Here some tips have been given for the patients of premature ejaculation. a patient of this disease can get rid of this problem by following the tips which have been given below-
  • If the man is the victim of premature ejaculation, he should establish sexual relation in dim light at night because a man becomes excited soon by seeing the nude body of the woman but this thing does not happen with a woman viz a woman does not become very excited by seeing a nude man. Many men want to excite their penis by the woman before sexual intercourse or during foreplay. The patient of this disease should try to avoid from such kinds of activities. A man wants to apply some lubricant before inserting the penis into the vagina and he wants that his wife may do this work. However, this is not a good choice by anyway because this situation is not good for the patients of premature ejaculation. If a man wants to apply something lubricated, he should apply this substance by himself.     
  • The time of insertion of the penis into the vagina is very important. Sexual excitement enhances very much as the penis is inserted into the vagina. Heat of the vagina enhances the excitement of the penis. The patient of this disease should loose his body completely just after inserting the penis into the vagina. He should not start the process of stroking just after inserting the penis into the vagina. He should control his excitement by stopping for some time. Thereafter, he should strike for five times by counting numbers and then he should stop for sometime. Now loose the body again. After that, the man should talk to his wife on another topic. The man should throw away the thing that he has been making sexual intercourse.   
  • The wife should support to her husband in this situation. When the man feels that his excitement has been reducing to some extant, he should strike for five times and thereafter he should become cool. Here one thing should be remembered necessarily that a man should not involve in salacious talking with his wife. This thing will reduce the excitement of the man and he will take more time in ejaculation. There is another way for it too, the man should make a chart, which contains how many times he stroke at night while establishing sexual relation. This thing will realize a patient whether the period of his sexual intercourse increases or not.
  • If the patient of this disease pays attention on his breathings, it will be more beneficial for the patient. The man should make his body loose just after inserting the penis into the vagina. The man should inhale as much breath as much he can. He should stop for sometime after inhaling the breath. He should stop after inhaling the breath as much time as he takes time to inhale breath. Thereafter, he should start the process of exhaling the breath   sexual excitement of the body reduces in this way and body gets rid of all kinds of depressions. After that, start the process of stroke. When the man feels that his body has become excited very much, he should stop all the activities soon and the body should be kept in loose state. Inhale breath again and exhale it gently. Do this process many times. This thing reduces sexual excitement of a man and his erection power enhances very much. After sometime, a man gets rid of this problem by following this technique. 
  • When a man ejaculates soon repeatedly, this thing proves very harmful physically and mentally for him. Many men do not make sexual relation because of the fear of premature ejaculation. But there is no need to be worried if this condition takes birth. When the husband feels that he has been ejaculating soon regularly while making sexual relation, he should not make sexual relation for some days. He should tell everything to his wife about it and he should prepare his wife to do so.
  • Many men become too much terrified because of this disease and they start their treatment by wrong way. They meet with hakims and fake doctors who boast to cure any kind of sexual disease. They spend everything there to get good treatment. Such kinds of hakims and doctors have no treatment in real. They try to snatch money from the patient who has been suffering from sexual diseases. Therefore, the patient of this disease should not spend their time and money by going to hakims and fake doctors. They should consult to a well-known and good doctor or sexologist.
  • Sometime patient of this disease think that they have sexual weakness and it is the reason of premature ejaculation. They start to take aphrodisiac medicine to get rid of this problem or they try to enhance their sexual power by taking wine or other intoxicating things. However, all these things are vain. A man never should rely on these things because sexual power of a man can never enhance at any rate. The patient of this disease should not try to take any kind of medicine suggested by hakims and fake doctors. In this situation, the patient should consult to a good doctor.
  • The patients of premature ejaculation should get rid of every kind of tension. They should try to live happy all the time because no problem can be solved with any kind of tension. In this way, problem becomes more serious than before. Sound health along with sound mind is essential for successful sexual relation. Mental balance of many men becomes misbalanced because of failures in sexual relations. They become irritated due to this problem and they become very angry on tiny things. A wife of such kind of husband is sad because of the dissatisfaction in sexual relations and she becomes very disturbed with this kind of behavior of her husband. All the patients of this disease who try to get rid of this problem normally get rid of this problem soon.
  • To get rid of premature ejaculation, the best way is start and stop repeatedly. Here it means to say that pressing of the penis at the time of masturbation. Pressing of the penis has an important place to get great sexual pleasure through sexual intercourse. it can be called an exercise of the penis too. A man can enhance the sensations of his sensitiveness.  In this way, a man can control the ejaculation of semen gradually- 
  • First step of exercise:

Hold the penis with the help of hand and start masturbation. When you feel that ejaculation is near, you should stop at that time. After sometime, start this process viz masturbation again. This process should take at least 15 minutes. One thing should be remembered necessarily that condition of ejaculation might not occur while starting this process again. The main purpose of this exercise is that a man may come to know about the moments before ejaculation and he may learn how to stop sexual excitement before ejaculation of semen.

  • Second step:

In this step, the penis should hold in a way that hand should remain in the contact of penis. Apply oil on the penis if it is possible so that sensations may inform you. Imagine in this way as if you were making sexual relation with a very beautiful woman. This oil is applying so that the man may feel as if he were striking in the vagina. A man takes long time in ejaculation of semen. Each step of this exercise can take one week or more than one week.

Controlling over ejaculation with the help of female partner

First step:-

The man should lie on his stomach and the woman should lie between the legs of the man in a way so that her legs may situate under the legs of man. Thereafter, the woman should start the process of masturbation by holding her husband’s penis. When the man feels that ejaculation is near, he should hint his wife to stop and get free to the penis from the grip of hands. After taking rest for some time, the man should say to restart the process of masturbation. The man should say to his wife to stop the process of masturbation as he feels that ejaculation of semen is near. This process should take at least 15 minutes. The man should not think about the sensitive body organ of the woman at any rate. 

Second step:-

In this step, the woman should arouse the penis of her husband until it gets full erection. Thereafter, the woman should come over her husband and she should try to enter the penis into her vagina by holding it with her hands. When the penis may enter into the vagina, she should lie without showing any moment but the man may keep on feeling the sensation of the vagina.  When the man feels that ejaculation is near, he should hint his wife to remove from her body. This process can be repeated for 15 minutes after cooling down the excitement.

Third step:-

          This step is like other steps too. In this step, the woman remains above of a man too. Role of a woman is very important in this step. The man helps to his wife by holding her buttocks when she strikes in her vagina. Thereafter, he stops to his wife when he feels that ejaculation is near. After sometime, this process can be repeated again but sexual excitement should not enhance suddenly. Continue this process until both husband and wife are satisfied completely.

Precautions:-

  • If a man has been suffering from this disease because of the lack of blood in the body, he should take less food than the appetite. He should not include wine, meat, ghee, potato, pulse of kidney bean, etc. in his meal. The patient should take pomegranate, grapes, lentil, vinegar, syrup and easily digestive foodstuffs.  
  • If a man becomes the victim of premature ejaculation because of having bile-generating foodstuffs and he feels inflammation at the time of semen, he should drink the syrup of cuscus or he should take a pinch of isbgol followed by cow milk. All the problems relating to bile disappear and sexual power of a man enhances after its use.
  • If the problem of premature ejaculation is because of dryness, constipation or sensation of cold, he should take purgative medicine to purify the stomach properly.
  • If the problem is due to physical elements, the patient should take such foodstuffs, which have the capacity to enhance strength, semen and freshen to the mind. Such things are as cream, halwa of suji, butter, pudding, honey, sweet of white ash guard, cashew nut-almond, currant, potato, sespedula, breads of the wheat siftings.  
  • Patients of premature ejaculation and a healthy man should not establish sexual relation just having meal or empty stomach.
  • Sheersha asana proves very beneficial for the patient of premature ejaculation.
  • The man should remains far his mind from sexual things while adopting foreplay before sexual intercourse because if a man thinks about it the tumors that help the penis to get erection will leave its grip after tiring. If it is done, the man faces ejaculation soon.  
  • The patient of this disease will get too much strength if he remains far from sexual intercourse. In this way, he will not become the victim of premature ejaculation.
  • The patient of this disease should walk on the green grass drenched with morning dew. After walking 10-15 minutes, he should ash his feet with cold water. He should put on wooden sandal at home because it will be very useful.
  • Massage between the big toe and first finger of the feet with the mustard oil. This medicine proves very beneficial for the patients of premature ejaculation.
  • The patient of this disease should walk in fresh morning air and he should do exercise. Doing so proves very beneficial for the patient of this disease.
  • If one has become the victim of this disease, he should try to know the cause of this problem as impotency, defected semen, nightfall, flabbiness of the penis, small penis, curvedness of the penis, emission of semen without erection, sexual coolness of the woman and spermathorrhoea. To get rid of such causes of premature ejaculation, there is a need of regular and vast self-restraint and eatable and not eatable treatment. Hence, a treatment should not quit without completing.

Treatment:-

  • Mix 10 grams trifala powder in equal quantity of hone properly. Take this mixture in the morning and evening. Its use gets rid of a person from premature ejaculation, inflammation of the ureter, spermatorrhoea etc. this medicine should be taken for 4-5 months regularly according to season.
  • A man should not make sexual relation with ugly woman and who makes sexual relation with many men. In addition to, he should not establish sexual relation with a woman who is older than the man is in age. Besides it, he should avoid from unnatural coition, masturbation, excessive sexual intercourse and other bad habits.
  • Mix 10 ml juice of fresh Indian gooseberry and 50 grams honey properly. Take this preparation regularly 30-40 days. Its use ends the thinness of the semen and enhances the quantity of semen.
  • Cool 100 grams juice of onion in 500 ml milk of cow. Boil the milk until it remains half. Mix sugar-candy in it and drink. Sexual power of a man enhances by drinking this milk.
  • Mix ground resin in milk properly and drink at night before sleeping. This medicine provides relief in premature ejaculation.
  • Mix 25 ml juice of white onion in 50 grams pure honey properly. Its use strengthens body of a man and enhances sexual power. The man gets rid of this problem soon by the use of this medicine.
  • Boil 6-7 dates palms in cow or nanny goat milk. Eat these date palms and drink the milk. Its regular use enhances strength and semen in the body of a man. 
  • Take kerned of the seeds of tamarind, powder of white sandal, beejband and winter cherry each two grams with 350 ml milk in the morning and evening. This medicine proves very beneficial for the patient of premature ejaculation. The patient should not take sourness, meat-fish, egg, etc. in meal during this treatment. The man should not establish sexual relation too while taking this medicine.
  • Take 25 grams white sesame, 5 grams white muscle, 12 grams bark of isabgol, 5 grams salab sugar candy and cook unrefined mixed milk. A kind of pudding is prepared in this way. Take this pudding after cooling once or twice in a day. Its use ends the thinness of the semen because it thickens the semen of a man. The patient of this disease gets a lot of relief by taking this medicine.
  • Mix banyan beard dried in shadow, long leved barlaria, dry pods each 2 grams and 0.12 grams iron ash in milk properly. Take this preparation in the morning and evening regularly. Take this medicine for forty days regularly. The use of this medicine proves very beneficial for the patient of premature ejaculation.
  • Take 140 grams salab, 135 grams seeds of chukalignment, 120 grams seeds of basil, 120 grams caltrop, 100 grams seeds of cow hage, 100 grams simbal muscle, 75 grams Indian hemp, 60 grams bamboo manna, 30 grams cloves, 25 grams vang ash and 30 grams ash of silver. Grind these medicines separately and filter through a cloth. There mix all these things properly. This preparation should be taken in the morning and evening with sugar candy mixed milk. Sugar can be mixed in this milk or medicine. Mix this preparation in one pinch of gulkand and take. Milk can be drunk after taking this medicine too. During this treatment, the patient should not take red chilly, brinjal, meat-fish and egg. He should take milk, ghee, butter and bread of flour of gram.  
  • The use of 0.12 grams ash of bang, 0.6 gram ash of silver and 0.12 gram ash of iron mixing with butter in the morning and evening proves very beneficial.
  • Take 0.6 gram ash of pearl, 0.6 gram certified makardhwaj, 0.12 grams ash of silver with cream or butter in the morning and evening regularly for forty days. Its use provides lots of relief in this disease.

Use of sexual lack in premature ejaculation:-

Sexual urge is produced in health women during the activities of foreplays before the sexual intercourse. A woman gets ready to make sexual relation if a man adopts the activities of foreplays for sometime and helps her husband throughout sexual intercourse. Some women have sexual urge scarcely and they remain passive towards sexual intercourse. They try to avoid from sexual relations. If sexual relation is made with such kinds of women, it appears as rape not sexual intercourse. The woman is not ready to make sexual relation if she gets ready to make sexual relation because of the fear of her husband, vagina of the woman does not get wetness. In this situation, the penis cannot reach into the deepness of the vagina. A man faces great problems while striking and becomes the victim of premature ejaculation.

In real, a few women have the lack of sexual urge. Such kinds of women remain far from sexual pleasure. Besides it, they do not get sexual pleasure to their husbands too. There are many causes of the lack of sexual urge in women. A girl who grows in a religious family is learnt that sex is a kind of sin and involvement in sex is a very bad deed. In this way, a girl becomes passive towards sexual relation naturally. However, the disease of the lack of sexual urge in a woman is not very big disease, which cannot be cured. This kind of woman can take interest in sexual intercourse with the help of understanding, patience and activities of foreplay.

There are many causes of the lack of sexual urge, which can be divided into two parts:-

Physical and mental causes:-

If the cause of the lack of sexual urge is physical, she should try to know the cause of this problem first. Its main causes are as lack of hormones in the body, defective uterus, defect in the working system of pituitary gland and thyroid gland, lack of blood, nervous breakdown, working by gland named bartholin, undeveloped vaginal path and labia majora and labia minora.

Real physical causes of the lack of sexual urge can be known very easily but to know its mental causes is very difficult because real cause keeps on lying in the layers of unconscious mind. Psychological tricks can be proves beneficial if they are adopted with patience and sympathy. Hurriedness can prove harmful. Taking step first for sexual intercourse by the man without taking a woman in his belief is not good at any rate. If a man takes a woman in his belief, the woman starts to open gradually and one day she takes full interest at the time of sexual intercourse.   

First experience of sexual intercourse creates a fear in the mind of a woman and this is the reason of the lack of sexual urge. This mental shock makes her passive towards sexual intercourse. Besides it, fear of conception makes a woman passive towards sexual intercourse. a woman becomes the victim of the lack of sexual urge naturally if a man makes sexual relation with her without arousing her. Hence, a man should play with the sensitive body organs of a man. He should kiss, embrace and fondle her because doing so is very essential. A man should arouse a woman by paying attention on her tender feelings.

A man needs to adopt precautions, patience, and technique to arouse a woman with low sexual urge. a man can take from half an hour to one hour to arouse a woman for sexual intercourse. Hence, this kind of woman should be aroused gradually by the man.

In the beginning, a husband should sit on a cozier bad or sofa by taking his wife in his lap. She should be sat in a way that her both buttocks might be kept on the thighs of the man. A man should keep her beautiful face before his face. Thereafter, wrap her waist or neck with the help of hands. Start love talking with her and praise her beauty and airs. Make her hair with the help of fingers along with the praise of her beauty. A woman becomes very happy by hearing her praise because hearing praise of her beauty and puberty is the biggest weakness of every woman. Thereafter, the man should praise her eyes, lips and cheeks. In addition to, the man should keep on kissing on the sensitive body organs of a woman.

To express love on the beautiful face of a woman, a man should kiss on her most sensitive organ viz breast. He should praise her breast along with pressing the breast. Breast of a woman is very sensitive body organs and many woman get sexual satisfaction only by touching or kindling it. After pressing the breast of the woman, the man should touch the naval of the woman and he should kiss there. Thereafter, the man should touch or fondle the things of the woman with the help of his both hands. Thereafter, the man should fondle or touch the root of both thighs and he should keep on fondling this portion for some time. When sexual urge of a woman arouses, she stretches her both thighs and embraces her husband.

Thereafter, the man should touch his wife’s labia majora. As the man touches the labai majora, a kind of electricity is produced in the body of the woman and she embraces her husband in her grip. This is the best time to put off the clothes. The man should also put off his clothes after putting of the clothes of his wife. The man should kiss on her lips, cheeks and eyes by taking her in his embrace. After that, he should press the breast and touch the body of the woman. In this way, sexual urge of a man will reach on climax and she will take her husband in her grip. Her vagina wants the insertion of the penis. A woman whether she is too much cold sexually becomes ready for sexual intercourse.

After that, sit again on the bed by taking the woman in the lap. Suck her lips and tongue along with the pressing of the breast. The man should keep his tongue in the mouth of his wife and move round in her mouth. Paps of the breast should be rubbed by the man with the help of the first two fingers and thumb in a round circle. When the woman starts to take her husband in her arms repeatedly, the man should concentrate his mind on her labia majora again. Labia majora and labia minora should be kindled and patted by the man. Now, he should fondle the clitoris with the help of his finger and he should move the clitoris in a round circle by taking it between first finger and thumb. Clitoris of the woman is the most sensitive body organs of the body of a woman. 

This is called a switch of the woman to arouse her for sexual intercourse. A kind of electricity is produced in all the body organs of the woman if the man touches or presses to the clitoris. A kind of intoxication starts to prevail in the eyes of the woman and she closes her eyes. Her whole body starts to vibrate and she takes breath rapidly. She takes her husband in her arms. This is best chance to a man to penetrate the penis into the vagina but at this time, there is a need to adopt precautions too. The penis should insert into the vagina slowly not with jolts. The man should become cool after inserting the penis into the deepness of the vagina. However, he should keep on kissing and sucking the lips and tongue of his wife along with the pressing of the breast. After one or two minutes, he should start the process of striking into the vagina with the penis.  Movement of the process of striking should be as much as the woman may bear it.  When the woman starts to move her waist and buttocks, the man should increase the movement of the process of striking.

If a woman does not get sexually excited in spite of adopting such kinds of activities of foreplay, the woman will be called a woman with too much lack of sexual urge. Only one formula remains to arouse sexual excitement in her body. The man should suck the clitoris of the woman and he should lick vaginal platform by his tongue lovingly. This process is called cunnilingus in English language. This formula is considered very effective formula to arouse a woman for sexual intercourse.

Nowadays, a large number of men feel bad by hearing the name of cunnilingus but existence of cunnilingus and its use has ancient history. Scenes of cunnilingus and kissing on the penis can be observed in historical pictures. Cunnilingus has been spreading in all the countries very rapidly to enhance the sexual urge of a woman.

No one formula is better than the formula of cunnilingus and kissing on the vagina to arouse a woman for sexual intercourse. Not only husband but also wife can understand it a strange activity but pornographic magazines have several such kinds of pictures. Doctors in foreign countries consult to their patients to read and watch such kinds of pornographic books. Women who have too much lack of sexual urge have become ready to make sexual relation because sexual urge of them has aroused very much by reading, watching such kinds of pornographic books. 

Vagina should be cleansed by any fragrant soap and rose water, pandanus or any other fragrant substance should be applied or sprinkled on the vagina before licking. The man should keep a thick pillow under the hips of the wife so that vaginal platform may become high. Thereafter, the man should stretch both thighs of his wife and thereafter, he should kiss on the labia majora repeatedly by bending over the vagina. Now the man should stretch the both labia majora and labia minora to kiss it. He should kiss on the vagina many times. Then the man should take his lips towards the clitoris of the vagina gradually and he should kiss the clitoris 9-10 times. Now the husband should touch the clitoris with the help of tongue. He should round his tongue and wrap to the clitoris by tongue. Thereafter, suck the clitoris of the vagina with the help of lips.  

If a man keeps on pressing the breast of the woman along with cunnilingus, the woman becomes very much sexually excited. She starts to rub her labia majora with the lips of the man. Her breathing becomes fast and she starts to take sibilance. Her vagina will become wet because of secretion. In this situation, the man should stop the process of cunnilingus. If he does not do so, the woman will become cool. This is the best time to insert the penis into the vagina of the woman. Hence, the man should stop the process of cunnilingus and he should insert his penis into the vagina soon. Start the process of striking into the vagina. Process of striking should be slow in the beginning and it should be increased at the time of orgasm.   

Knowledge:-

A man should have full control over his sexual excitement while adopting the process of cunnilingus. If he feels excessive sexually excited, he should divert his mind on other things. He can talk about home and out of home and future planning. This thing controls the sexual urge of a man and the man gets rid of premature ejaculation too. In this way, a man becomes able to control the premature ejaculation in this way. Vagina of the woman opens fully when a woman gets excited sexually.  Her labia minora become puffed after swelling and their size increases one fourth.

Her labia majora also become thick because of swelling and the clitoris becomes erect like the penis of the man by opening. Hence, a man should insert one-fourth portion of the penis into the vagina and he should take rest for one or two minutes during this period. A woman will remain sexually excited until the penis of the man remains in the vagina. The woman will try to take in the whole penis into her vagina and for it, she will toss her hips repeatedly but the man should take step carefully. Now, the man should insert his half penis into the vagina by pressing the breast. This way, the woman will become more restless but the man should not do hurry. Process of kissing of the lips and sucking of the tongue should keep on continue.

Clitoris should be pressed continuously without striking the penis into the vagina. The woman will start to take sibilance and her breathing speed will become fast. Thereafter, the man should start the process of striking gradually and movement of the strokes should be enhanced according to the sexual urge of the woman. When vagina of the woman becomes wet, the man should satisfy her by increasing the number of strokes. If a man adopts this process patiently and successfully, sexual coolness of the woman will disappear soon. In this way, there will be a respect and reverence in the mind of the woman for her husband. 

Obtaining of orgasm or climax in woman during sexual intercourse:-

When a woman reaches on climax during sexual intercourse, she expresses this climax by showing different kind body expressions and postures. A woman gets as much sexual pleasure during sexual intercourse as the man gets at the time of ejaculation. The only difference between the man and woman at the time of getting orgasm during sexual intercourse is that a man becomes cool completely after ejaculation of semen whereas sexual excitement of a woman reduces gradually and she comes out from the sea of sexual pleasure slowly.

Herat beatings and breathings of the woman become fast. There is a contraction on her face along with intoxication in the eyes. Her eyeballs reach above in the eyes and she tossed her buttocks when the man is making sexual intercourse with her to absorb the full length of the penis into her vagina. Her whole body starts to shiver because of excessive sexual excitement and she produces different kinds of sounds from her mouth.

She embraces her husband in her both arms closely and try to sink in her husband’s body. She pinches her husband with her nails and bites with her teeth. Generally, this condition remains for half to one minute.

Obtaining orgasm by men during sexual intercourse:-

Several men are quite unknown from the sexual excitement and process of ejaculation. They know nothing about these four stages of this period, which have been given below.

  • Beginning stage of sexual excitement
  • Stage of plateau
  • Stage of climax or orgasm
  • Stage after orgasm

Beginning stage of sexual excitement:-

It has been described already that a man becomes too much sexually excited only by touching, kissing or embracing a woman. it becomes very difficult to control this sexual excitement but he is not aware about this kind of excitement. He knows nothing how his penis gets erection and how hardness comes in the penis. The penis remains small and in a flabby form.

Sexual excitement of is associated with a point situated in the brain. As this point becomes active as a man becomes sexually excited and gets ready to establish sexual intercourse. As salacious ideas strike in the brain of a man, blood starts to fill in the tissue like cells of the penis consequently, size of the penis starts to increase and the penis gets erection and hardness completely. The length of the penis is from 2 inches to 3.5 inches in normal stage but after erection, the penis becomes 5 to 6 inches long and 1.25 inches to 1.5 inches thick. The length and thickness of the penis may be less or more than this.  

One thing is necessary to know here that penis size of two men who are same in age and health. Hence, a man should never compare his penis with the penis of another person. Penises of men have many differentiations than the differentiations of the vaginas of women. 

Stage of plateau:-

The penis remains erect after getting excited once until the man crosses the boundary of ejaculation. It is called the stage of plateau. However, sometimes, the penis loses the power of erection and hardness. The penis takes time to get erection and hardness. Many times, it happens that the penis of man does not erection and hardness after losing it once. Such kind of condition takes birth because of any kind of depression and fear existed in the mind. If this fear or tension makes a place in the mind of a woman, the man loses his masculinity.

Glans of the penis gets full excitement after the erection in the penis. Testicles reach towards the root of the penis. Scrotum of the testicles becomes fat and hard. As the sexual excitement increases as sexual pleasure start to become high and the penis becomes erect towards the stomach. At this moment, the penis gets full length, thickness and hardness. The penis does not become flabby until the man ejaculates. 

Stage of orgasm or climax:-

When a man reaches on the climax during sexual intercourse, the muscles of the penis and near about it start to contract. In this stage, the man loses the control over the sexual excitement completely and he increases towards ejaculation. Contraction of the muscles is the pre information of the ejaculation. At this time contraction in the prostate and semen duct starts to be produced. In the beginning, the man feels contraction twice or thrice.

It occurs one after another continuously. First contraction sends semen in the urine pipe rapidly. At this time, the man feels pleasurable excitement and tinkling like heaven. Three strokes in the beginning are so fast and excited that a man forgets everything for some time completely. Thereafter, number of strokes starts to reduce. Normally, each ejaculation contains 5-8 contractions and each contraction throws out the semen through penis. Semen comes out from the urine pipe.

About 4-5 ml semen comes out from the penis in each time’s ejaculation. Quantity of it may be more or less than it. Quantity of semen does not affect the sexual pleasure of a man by any way.

Obtaining orgasm or climax:-

The penis starts to lose its hardness as a man ejaculates. It becomes so much flabby while stopping the contraction that a man is not able to strike his penis into the vagina. The penis becomes too much small slowly and gets it normal stage within 10-15 minutes. If the penis is not draw out from the vagina after ejaculation, hardness and erection of the penis can sustain for 5-10 minutes but a man cannot strike into the vagina. In this respect, it can be said that a man stay for long time after ejaculation than the woman stay. 

 

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