Essential things about sexual intercourse


ESSENTIAL THINGS ABOUT SEXUAL INTERCOURSE


Sex organs and knowledge about them :

Introduction:-

Sex is a subject about which both man and woman are eager to know. As food, air and water are essential for life as sex is very necessary.Sex is a subject about which both man and woman are eager to know. As food, air and water are essential for life as sex is very necessary. Therefore, sex knowledge is very important because without knowledge no work can be done properly. A little problem relating to sex seems too big. Many persons become the victim of duffers and waste their money, time and even life.

Here we are describing some essential things by knowing them several sex-related misconceptions and problems can be ended.

  • When the penis is excited before sexual intercourse, a few drops of a kind of liquid starts on exuding. Some persons consider it semen but it is a fluid exuded by some glands.
  • Some persons are habitual of masturbation of which they consider a fatal disease. The victim of masturbation has a misconception that they will suffer from several diseases after marriage. In fact, neither masturbation is a disease nor physical and mental problems take place because of this problem after marriage. Maturity of sexual glands produces sex urge. This is the reason that youth choose to masturbate to satisfy this sex urge in the lack of other options. Here mention one thing properly that 3-4 times masturbation in a month is not harmful but its regular habit may be the cause of several physical and mental disorders.
  • A person should draw his penis from the vagina during sexual intercourse or change the technique of copulation many times. A couple can prolong the time of sexual intercourse by following this formula.
  • Some persons suffer from a secretion of semen at night while sleeping. It is called nightfall. Often, young boys consider it a fatal disease and think that they will not able to make sexual relation after marriage. Nightfall is also the result of the maturity of sex glands. The production of semen in boys starts to exude from the age of adolescence. The emission of semen is not possible in the lack of sexual relation. This is the reason that the semen exudes from the body through nightfall. Nightfall is a natural and simple process in the development or growth of the body. 3-4 times nightfall in a month is normal but its regularity may be the cause of several disorders. 
  • Sometimes, a person believes early ejaculation is a great weakness but it is not such a weakness, which cannot be cured. The victim must advice to a sexologist along with the treatment of early ejaculation. Confidence to satisfy a woman is also necessary for the victim of early ejaculation. If a person follows this rule, he will get rid of this problem named early ejaculation.
  • Thick semen is not the evidence that it is able for the production of fetus or the person is able to beget offspring. The origin of fetus depends on the healthy and sufficient numbers of sperms as well as their movement.
  • The persons with dilute and watery semen are the victim of semen related diseases. There are a few sperms in such persons’ semen and there is no movement in the sperms. Such men are not ablein begetting offspring.
  • When the semen excretes from the penis, it is in a sticky and mucous form but after some time it becomes dilute like water because sperms remain alive and in active stage after ejaculation but they become passive and lose their movement after some time. This is the reason that thick semen changes into dilute stage like water after sometime.
  • How many sperms come out in a time’s ejaculation is not clear until now properly. However, according to estimations it is decided that 60 to 150 millions sperms come out in a time’s ejaculation.
  • Generally, a person ejaculates 2-5 ml semen in a time.
  • To know delivery date go 3 months back to menses and add 7 days in it. For instance, if a woman faced menses on the last 20 January, we find 20 October by going backward three months and the date becomes 27 by adding 7 days in it. Thus, we can say that this is the probably date of delivery. A pregnant woman can give birth to a child 2-4 days before or after this date too. 
  • Generally, women lose sex urge to some extant not completely comparatively before after the emission of uterus and ovary. However, this lack of sex urge can be fulfilled by arousing the clitoris. If you want, get treatment by the hormones in the observance of well-known doctor. 
  • When a person feels the time of ejaculation is near, he should constrict his anus tightly. This way a person prolong the time of ejaculation. 
  • If the woman suffers from pain in the vagina by the movement of waist during sexual intercourse, it should not consider that vaginal passage is narrow or tight but it is the symbol that there is a disease in the uterus and opening of the uterus is not in its normal stage.
  • A person gets long time to ejaculate in the second time than the first intercourse. However, the woman gets orgasm soon than the first intercourse.
  • Each woman enjoys of sex relation properly either into the darkness or in moon light. When a woman becomes carefree, she helps properly to her husband in sexual intercourse. Thus, both man and woman get full enjoyment viz orgasm.
  • No woman can be satisfied properly if she is not aroused before making sexual relation. Therefore, a woman should be aroused well by the use of foreplay before sexual intercourse.
  • Sex urge arises sooner in men than the women and cools down simultaneously.  However, it is quite opposite with the women. Sex urge takes time to be aroused and stays for long time.
  • After getting aroused whether a woman may say or not because of shame or shyness for penetrating penis into the vagina but she gives other many symptoms to do so. All the symptoms shown by the woman at this time inform that the penis should be penetrated into the vagina. If the woman looks towards her vagina, it should be considered that it is the right to insert the penis into the vagina.
  • After menstrual excretion, a woman starts to take interest in sexual intercourse. Besides it, sex urge becomes high to some extant after menses. 
  • Long, thick and stout penis is not the guarantee that a person can make sexual relation for a long time. Technique and art of making sexual relation is more valuable than the long and thick penis.  
  • It is said that a women cannot pregnant if sexual relation is made while menses.  
  • Eggs are very necessary to be pregnant because fetus originates when eggs meet with sperm in the uterus.
  • It is very difficult to know (a novice in the field of sexual relation) whether his wife has made sexual relationship before marriage with another man or not. A medical check up is also not able to find out the truth of this thing because the only way to know about it the check up of the hymen (a thin membrane into the vagina) but sometimes this membrane can break before marriage because of an accident or while playing.
  • Whether a woman has had orgasm or not while making sexual relation but the woman can be pregnant because the meeting of sperms and eggs is necessary to be pregnant. There is no relation of conception with physical and mental satisfaction. 
  • Clitoris, vagina, breast and nipples of the woman are the most sensitive organs. If these organs are aroused, a sex urge can be produced in a woman soon.
  • Testicles become affected soon with cold and heat. The temperature of the testicles is less than the temperature of the body. It is so because sperms cannot alive on the temperature of the body and this is the reason that they remain safe in the testicles apart from the body. 
  • Often a woman does not get aroused by seeing the penis of the man as a man becomes excited by seeing the beautiful breast of the woman.
  • Scrotum helps a lot in the safety of sperms from the impact of weather. This is the reason that this scrotum hangs towards below and contracts towards the root of the penis in winter season.
  • Many people are worried about the time of sexual intercourse but no one can decide a definite span of time for making sexual relation because each person has its own capacity to involve in sexual intercourse.  In this stage, it is hard to say that there should be a definite period of making sexual relation. When husband and wife make sexual relation after a long time, the man is very excited at that time and ejaculates soon. When a person makes sexual relation after seeing pornographic film or picture, he ejaculates soon. Many persons talks vulgarly with his wife and want that their wives do so because they think that sexual excitement increases by doing this. According to sexologists, sexual excitement can be increased but there is no guarantee of this thing that it will provide excessive sexual pleasure. Most people lose control over their excitement and ejaculate soon. They do not get real sexual pleasure.
  • Whether sexual relation should be made during day or night, is a very important subject. According to sexologists, day time is very good and appropriate to make sexual relation but mostly people make sexual relation during night because other kinds of several work is done during day and night for sleeping. Besides it, nobody interrupts at night whereas there is a fear in the mind least someone knocks the gate while making sexual intercourse. There is one thing also that, the beauty and attraction of the woman enhances at night, which gives excessive sexual pleasure. Besides it, ligaments become exhausted after sexual relation and it brings a sound sleep. Body relives completely as well. We get this facility only at night not day. To sum up night is better than the day to make sexual relation.     
  • Some person involves in sexual intercourse just after having meal but it is not right. There should be a break of two hours between meals and sexual relation. Here it means to say that sexual intercourse should be established after two hours of having meals. Because excessive blood and strength goes towards the stomach for digestion so if this blood and strength comes towards genitals, meals will not digest properly. After two hours, meals reaches in a condition after excreting from the stomach that it does not need too much blood and strength. Therefore, we can say that sexual intercourse should be made at least after two hours of having meals.   
  • As a person’s age grow as he faces problems in sexual relationship. They feel that their sexual potency has been decreasing. Nature wants that a person keep on making sexual relation from youth age to death because sperms keeps on originating in the testicles before the death and he can make a woman pregnant. On the contrary, it is quite different in the reference of woman. Often, women reach in the period of menopause at the age of 45-50 years. Here it means to say that origin of eggs and menses come to end. They lose the capability of conceiving. However, man can copulate or beget offspring at the age of 70-80 years. Normally, there is no problem in sexual intercourse at the age of 55-60 years.       

Preparation for making sexual intercourse:-

  • Both husband and wife should take dinner soon on the day of sexual relation. No one will feel heaviness in thelo stomach while making sexual intercourse.
  • Taking bath after half an hour of sexual relation is very beneficial for health.
  • The use of milk, jalebi, date palm and other sweet foodstuff proves very beneficial for the health. Their use produces strength in the body.
  • A person should not take pickles, sour things and heavy foodstuff because these things make the semen dilute and polluted. Semen excretes soon after their use. A person becomes the victim of early ejaculation.
  • A person should make physical relation with the women in the period of menstrual excretion because there is doubt of any sexual disease by making sexual relation in menses.

Precautions:-

  • Urination is very necessary for both man and woman. Genitals work naturally after urination.
  • Water should not be drunk before making sexual relation or sexual relation should not be made when you or your wife is thirsty. Water is prohibited until 15 minutes because it may be the cause of catarrh or loss of sexual capability.   
  • Opium, alcohol, intoxicating drug (charas), cocaine etc. are also avoidable. All these products enhances sexual urge in beginning by stimulating to the blood but after some time their use weakens the brain too much to make sexual relation.
  • A person should remain far from all kinds of mental disturbances or depression.

Wrong and apt conditions for sexual intercourse:-

  • Sexual intercourse during day is not appropriate by any way because day is hot by nature and warmth produces if sexual relation is made during day. The result of it is that there is doubt of syphilis. Offspring that take birth by making sexual relation during day is bilious natured, ill tempered, libidinous and spitfire by nature.
  • Avoid sexual intercourse during menstrual excretion. A new bride does not tell about the menses because of shame to her husband about it. So it becomes very essential for a husband that he should make sexual relation after knowing about menses. Make sexual intercourse after the menses.
  • Make sexual relation once a night as far as possible and there should be no sexual intercourse until 4-5 days.
  • When you are confirm that your wife is pregnant, physical relation should  not be made until three months and thereafter sexual relation can be made in fourth, fifth and sixth months of pregnancy carefully. Both should be agree for making sexual relation.
  • Sexual intercourse is prohibited if you and your wife have been suffering from exhaustion, headache and sperm disability as well as in the diseases of liver, lungs, eyes, stomach, heart and brain.
  • After delivery one should not make sexual relation until 1.5 months because uterus does not returns in its normal stage.
  • If the woman has been suffering from irregular menses, white leucorrhoea, itching and abnormal uterus, sexual intercourse should not make until she becomes healthy fully.
  • Sexual intercourse should not make with a woman who feeds milk to her child because if she becomes pregnant, milk pollutes and the child can be ill by drinking this milk.
  • If a person is the victim of nightfall, spermatorrhoea and early ejaculation, the woman should not make sexual intercourse with this person because there is doubt of aggravation of disease. The woman can also become the victim of many diseases.