Coition and Techniques
COITION AND TECHNIQUES
There are different styles of coition and each style is called technique. These techniques have their own importance because these techniques are related to sexual nature and physical structure of both man and female. If it is said that all the couples can establish sexual intercourse easily and successfully, it will be quite wrong.
About 84 kinds of techniques have been described in Indian sex epics and cockshastara. These epics advise that sexual intercourse should be made by lying, sitting and standing according to different sexual nature of women. Strange kinds of sexual techniques have been described in these sexual epics. If we think about these techniques deeply, we find that only those techniques should be adopted by us, which are easy, pleasurable, and without hurt. Other remaining techniques are useless and unnatural because penetration of penis into the vagina is not possible in several techniques mentioned in these sexual epics.
Different kinds of sex techniques have the same work as one simple technique has. The only difference is that new technique provides mental satisfaction. As a man eats sabji and rice daily, he feels boredom soon and after some time he does not want to take his regular meal. This is the reason that dishes are changed regularly by us. We do this so that we may get complete satisfaction. New dish everyday sustains interest in meal.
Coition is essential for a man. Similarly, adoption of different techniques in sexual intercourse is essential to bring newness in sexual life. A man has interest in sexual intercourse with the adoption of different techniques. It is the aim of man that he may get mental satisfaction by adopting different kinds of sexual techniques.
Techniques for sexual intercourse:
Simple technique: (man-on –top, face-to-face):
The main quality of this technique is that in this technique both man and woman lie face to face and observe to each other easily. Both understand each other’s physical postures. A man can inserts his penis into the vagina easily and besides it, he can kiss on a woman’s lips, cheeks and forehead without difficulty. He can press the breast of his partner properly. Both husband and wife can embrace to each other firmly. The main important thing is that a man remains too much active in this kind of sexual technique. Thus, a man makes sexual relations properly in this sexual technique along with the satisfaction of his ego.
Both husband and wife remain close to each other very much in this only sexual technique. Physical closeness of both man and woman has been considered the main source of great sexual pleasure and sexual excitement.
Generally, a man is subject and woman is object while establishing sexual relation. Here it means to say that a man plays an important role but woman not during sexual intercourse. Hence, a man can make sexual relation properly and actively in this technique. Most of newly married couples adopt this kind of sexual technique. This stage of youthfulness is full of great sexual urge. Desire for sex enhances sexual excitement of a person. This is the reason that both man and woman feel great sexual pleasure and satisfaction because they take part more actively.
Generally, not all the women are same in sexual nature. Therefore, several women want great pressure of her husband while making sexual relation through this technique. In excessive sexual excitement, they want more and more pressure of their husbands on them. On the other hand, many women want light or medium pressure of their husbands while making sexual relations through this technique. The feature of this technique is that two women of different kinds want different pressure of their husband during sexual intercourse. A man can give least pressure on his wife with the help of his elbows and shoulders when he makes sexual relation by lying on his wife.
Second feature of this technique is the close embracing of both husband and wife. When a man embraces his wife by lying on her and starts the process of stroking after inserting the penis into the vagina, entire vaginal platform of woman comes under pressure and embracing. If a man embraces to his wife in this stage, breast of the woman comes into the arms of man completely. A woman also can take her partner into her embracing as an active co partner. She can produce a pressure under the abdomen (below the naval) if she takes her husband into her arms below the shoulders of her husband. Besides it, she can embrace her husband’s thighs by lifting her legs in round circle after taking the penis into her vagina.
In this way, this technique is the most appropriate and popular for good and energetic sexual intercourse. Most of couples accept this sexual technique for coition.
Side-to-side sexual technique:-
This is the second most popular sexual technique after the first technique. In this technique, both husband and wife lie side by side. Both husband and wife do not lie up and down like the first one. It is the main difference between the both techniques. They lay side-to-side. In this technique, a woman lies towards right side and man lies towards left side. Both are in face-to-face condition in this technique.
When a man inserts his penis into the vagina, the woman keeps her right leg between the both legs of her husband and she keeps her left leg on the right thigh of her husband. The vagina of a woman reaches into such position that the penis of the man goes into the deepness of the vagina. On the one hand, a woman can take part easily in this technique and a man can rub the clitoris of the woman easily on the other hand. Both can adopt all the sexual activities with easiness while making sexual relation in this technique.
There is another condition of this technique too. A woman lies by left side when her husband inserts his penis into her vagina backwardly by lifting her right thigh a little. In this situation, man has much freedom to do sexual activity whereas woman not. This technique is adopted mostly by those couples who have bulgy tummy because they face difficulty if they make sexual relation according to previous technique viz technique of man-on-top.
Several men and women like this technique if many years have been passed of their marriage. They adopt it because they have not sexual urge like before but deep bond of love between husband and wife has been developed. This technique attracts couples in such kind of situations.
Woman-on-top, face-to-face technique:-
This technique is called an opposite technique too because mostly man and woman make sexual intercourse in normal condition. In this technique, man remains on top but in this technique, conditions become quite different. In this technique, man lies flatly and woman makes sexual relation by lying on his husband. In the first technique, sexual intercourse is done by the man but in this technique, sexual intercourse is done by the woman.
Sexual urge is too much in several sexy women. This is the reason that they want to make sexual relation as a subject in spite of getting orgasm. A woman of this kind takes the penis of her husband into her vagina and she starts the process of stroking herself more actively. In other words, it can be said easily that all the activities of man in general sexual intercourse are done by the woman in this technique of sexual intercourse. Here it means to say that woman is subject and man is object. A woman does each activity of sexual intercourse whereas man does nothing but he only bears. Opposite sexual techniques are called better than the others because man remains on below side and does nothing except lying. This is the reason that he does not become the victim of early ejaculation. A woman also wants the same. Here it means to say that a woman does not like early ejaculation of man. If it happens, sexual intercourse runs for long time. A woman gets full sexual satisfaction through this technique of sexual intercourse.
A man has a convenience of foreplay in this technique of sexual intercourse but all the activities of foreplay are also performed by the woman. In this technique, a man has no need to do something.
Mostly women are not sexy by nature but generally, they start to feel sexual urge because of any cause. In this situation, a man invites a woman to make sexual intercourse through this technique. This technique not only provides great sexual pleasure but also newness in sexual intercourse.
1. Sexual intercourse in standing position:-
In this technique, both husband and wife make sexual intercourse in standing position. A woman stands on a higher place than the man stands by taking the support of a wall or anything and the man inserts his penis into the vagina of his wife.
Sexual intercourse made through this technique cannot be said complete sexual intercourse by any way because neither a woman aroused fully for sexual relation nor she gets orgasm and sexual satisfaction. Only man becomes satisfied by inserting the penis into the vagina of his wife.
Sexual relations are made in a compulsion in this technique. Both husband and wife establish sexual relation through this way if they are mentally disturbed or they are unable to make sexual relation in tension free surrounding.
2. Rear-entry intercourse or sexual intercourse in doggy style:
In this technique, a woman bends forwardly by taking the support of hands and man inserts his penis into her vagina from the backside. It is called animal coition too.
In this sexual technique, only man is active and he does all the activities of foreplay. A woman keeps on bending and remains in a passive stage. She is not in a position to give support to her partner. A man has full freedom to make coital movement of his penis according to his desires. He can embrace to the woman by his arms, press her breast and rub the clitoris of the woman with full freedom. In this way, a man can take excessive sexual pleasure through this sexual intercourse.
However, this technique has many inconveniences too. First, a woman cannot play any role in this technique and second, both husband and wife have to bend forwardly which can be the cause of great exhaustion later on. The biggest drawback of this technique is that both husband and wife are not in face-to-face condition. Besides it, a man knows nothing about the expressions and posture of the woman. Sexual intercourse relates with the mental state of woman so this technique should be accepted with the consent of woman otherwise not.
3. Sexual intercourse by husband and wife in a sitting position:
Many persons adopt this technique to bring newness in sexual relations. generally, a woman sits on a high surface as chair, bed, short table in this way that portion of waist may lift upwardly a little and touch at one point. She appears as if she were in a half- lying condition. She looses lower portions of waist forwardly and she looses upper portion of the waist backwardly. She spreads her both legs left and right side somewhat apart and the man inserts his penis into her vagina by coming between her both legs.
In this stage, when a man fastens the process of stroking, she wraps her husband around his waist with her both legs. By doing so, excessive pressure is given to the vaginal platform by the man and penis of the man inserts into the deepness of the vagina. In this way, both husband and wife feel a different kind of sexual pleasure. This technique can be reversed completely. Here it means to say that a man sits on a higher place and woman makes sexual relations like man. Everything is done like before.
In this technique, a woman keeps a soft pillow under her buttocks and raise her both thighs. When the husband has inserted his penis into the vagina, the wife grips the buttocks of her husband by her hands and gives support to her husband. Thus, both husband and wife get great sexual pleasure.
If the woman folds her legs towards her breast from the knees and creates great space between the two, it is called vijrimbhitik aasan. Vagina opens like the mouth of egg and too big and stout penis enters into it easily. This way both husband and wife get great sexual pleasure.
6. Indranik asana:
If a woman raises her legs altogether and keeps them on the thighs of her husband and the husband makes sexual relation by slanting, it is called indranik aasan.
7. Piritak asana:
It is one kind of sexual technique too. In this technique a woman presses to her vagina tightly to make it more contractive during sexual intercourse through samutak aasan, it is called piritak aasan.
8. Veshtik asana:
When a woman contracts her vagina by entangling her thighs like a scissors while making sexual intercourse through uttan samput aasan, it is called veshtik aasan.
9. Varvak asana:
In this technique, a woman contracts her vagina after inserting the penis and grips to the penis firmly in her vagina. A woman grips the penis of her husband into her vagina as mare grips the penis of horse. It is called varvak aasan. This technique provides such kind of sexual pleasure to a man as if he were making sexual relation with an unmarried girl.
When a man raises both things of his wife and inserts penis into the vagina towards below side, it is called bhugnak aasan. In this technique, a man can make sexual relations in a standing position by lifting a woman in his lap.
In this technique, the woman spreads her both thighs and keeps them on the shoulders of her husband by folding them from knees. A man makes sexual relations by bending like a bow.
12. Shulchintak asana:
If a woman spreads one leg on the bed and tries to touch the head of her husband by folding another leg, it is called shul chintak aasan.
13. Venudaritik asana:
When a woman keeps her one leg on the shoulder of her husband and spread another on the bed and starts sexual intercourse, it is called venudaritik aasan.
14. Padam asana:
When a woman makes sexual relation through samput aasan by lying on the bed and keeps her right thigh on the left thigh suddenly, it is called padamaasan.
15. Utpirit asana:
If a woman keeps her one leg on the chest of her husband by folding and spreads another leg on the bed, it is called utpirit aasan.
16. Paravratak asana:
When a man kisses deeply his wife while making sexual relation through samput asana and the woman also grips the arms of her husband from below side thereafter she rounds backwardly by sitting gradually.
A technique should be accepted by a couple about which both husband and wife are consent. If one between the two is not agree to adopt the technique, second partner should not fore to make sexual relation with the technique. If it is not done, it will not be complete sexual intercourse.
If the woman is slim physically and there is a lack of flesh on the hips, sexual technique man on top can be the cause of great troublesome. None will get the real sexual pleasure. If a man wants to make sexual relation through this technique, he should keep a pillow under the buttocks of his wife. The penis will enter into the vagina deeply by doing so. Vaginal platform raises high by doing so and there will be no difficulty in the penetration of the penis into the vagina. Sexual relation through sexual technique side to side or other ways of making sexual relations can be established.
Sometimes, penetration of penis into the vagina becomes very difficult because of the structure of body and vagina. If a man is aware about this fact, he should try to adopt easy method of sexual intercourse. A method can be adopted according to need and experience.
Any special technique should not be imposed on a woman by her husband. He should be worried about her interest and sexual nature. In this way, it is possible that the woman wants some other technique of sexual intercourse. A man should be worried about this fact necessarily.