Art of lovemaking


ART OF LOVEMAKING


Introduction:-

A well-known psychologist has uttered that a man should arouse his wife for sex by his wit, strength and wisdom before sexual intercourse. A man, who ignores the feelings of his wife, is not a real man in any way. He keeps on absorbing only in his joy.  

It has been described in ‘Encycopaedix of sexual knowledge’ that dalliance has not been made by libidinous persons. It is a physical activity. A person should give pay attention on this activity as he pays of his other activities. Lovemaking needs open heart.    

Everybody is involved in lovemaking under different conditions but people have a little knowledge about it. The result of it is that such people consider lovemaking as a wrong deed. When a person involves in lovemaking, there is a fear in his mind. He keeps on fearing by any wrong consequences. This is the reason that he does not show his feelings of love too.  

Here one thing is necessary to describe that lovemaking depends on vivid interests of different persons. For example, a man becomes satisfied only by kissing on women cheeks or lips whereas another satisfies by biting on woman’s cheeks and lips. Sometimes, it happens that a technique during lovemaking proves enjoyable and pleasurable for one partner but the same technique causes disgust or much pain for other partner. A man can be aware about it on the bases of daily lovemaking. Here it means to say that a person becomes aware about the technique, which proves pleasurable for both husband and wife only by making sexual relation daily.    

Art of lovemaking includes all the efforts that arouse sexual urge in the mind of a person. Thereafter, a man inserts his penis into the vagina and ejaculates semen by adopting different movements. Finally, the man draws his penis from the vagina. Here it means to say that sexy gossip; caressing, kissing, embracing and pressing the breast not only arouse a woman sexually but also provide orgasm to the woman.

According to some sexologists, activities before sexual intercourse can be divided into two categories. In the first stage of lovemaking, a woman is aroused for intercourse and sexual relation is established in the second stage. There is a typical job to draw a line between these two stages. It cannot be said definitely what is the starting point of the first stage and what is the last step of lovemaking. When a man sucks the lips of his wife, he gets pleasure in it. Besides it, his wife also gets much pleasure in this activity. Thus, both husband and wife get real sexual pleasure. Dalliance that is enjoyable for both husband and wife is the real meaning of lovemaking. Kissing and pressing the breast are other techniques to arouse a woman for sexual intercourse. These techniques cannot be separated from coition. Sexual urge of a man or woman can be aroused by touching soft organs as well as by making sexy gossips. All these activities of lovemaking are done altogether.       

Often, it is observed that a man becomes sexually aroused only by seeing a beautiful and attractive girl. Sometimes, it happens that a man becomes very excited by seeing a charming and attractive woman and sometimes he does not become so excited even by touching a woman. Sometimes, it is observed that both man and woman become sexually excited only by talking to each other. Their heart beatings become high too. Other symptoms at the time of talking to each other are as a sensation of current in the body, red face and both want to embrace to each other. Thus, it becomes clear how much important observation, gossips and other things are before sexual intercourse.      

When greasy secretion starts to exude from the vagina of a woman or penis of a man, sexual urge has been aroused fully. This is the physical symptom of sexual urge. It can appear in both man and woman.

Experienced men do not involve in sexual intercourse just after going near the women. They do so because they are aware about the feelings and mental state of women. Such men know that secretion from the vagina and penis are the symptoms of excitement. Thereafter, they stop the activities of foreplay and starts intercourse because there is no need to arouse women. It does not happen always. Sometimes, arousing to a woman becomes necessary after excreting a greasy secretion from the vagina.  

Each woman knows how can she attract a man or how much love is enough for her.  She shows different kinds of activities at the time of lovemaking. Sometimes, she defends herself and smiles. Sometimes, she advances forwardly but returns backwardly at once. Sometimes, she kisses her husband and absorbs her face in the chest of her husband on the other moment.

Today, women feel hesitation in doing so as mentioned above. They think that a man goes behind a woman because of his nature. There is a feeling in their minds that they should not arouse her husband. That is why, when a man goes to a woman, she does not try to attract and arouse her husband. If a man touches body organs of his wife gently or kisses on her lips and cheeks, she neither objects nor shows any interest in it. She becomes as a statue viz a thing without soul or feelings lying on the bed. A person feels as if he were making sexual relation with a thing not a woman. No man wants to make sexual relation with a woman like statue.

When a woman gives full assistance to her husband during sexual intercourse, both husband and wife get much sexual pleasure. This assistance may be in two forms- first, assistance with objection and assistance with full consent. Both husband and wife get real pleasure during sexual intercourse when there is consent in the objection of a woman. Here it means to say that objection is outwardly not inwardly. Such kinds of examples have been given here relating to the reference in which there is consent in objection. On the firs night when husband uncovers the veils of her wife, her wife objects a little. In addition to, the husband takes kisses on her lips and presses her breast in spite of the objection of his wife. Thus, both husband and wife get great sexual pleasure in such kinds of activities. The objection of a woman contains consent. 

A woman of this era thinks that love of her husband is enough for her and there is no need to arouse her husband for sex. This thinking is true to some extant because if a man loves his wife, he makes sexual relation with his wife properly. The man gets mental assistance towards his wife during sexual intercourse and that is very essential to get real sexual pleasure. The man makes sexual relation properly.

There are several women, who want that their husbands may establish sexual relation with them forcibly and they keep on refusing to do so. Some women want that their husbands may arouse them slowly by adopting different kinds of activities. Kissing, embracing and sexy gossips can be the part of these kinds of activities but there are true feelings in heart too for sexual intercourse. A new kind of sense takes birth in both man and woman after adopting these activities. They get orgasm during sexual intercourse.

Now, one question relating to the origin of dalliance arises here. Touching is the first step of dalliance. In this step, when man and woman touch to each other’s body organs, touching starts its work. Both husband and wife feel a wave of current in their bodies. When they watch into each other’s eyes, they feel that something is hidden behind this touching. Different kinds of feelings and sensations take birth in the bodies of both husband and wife. Thereafter, kissing is second step of dalliance because touching arouses only sex urge in either male or female whereas kissing shows that this dalliance can be changed into sexual relation too. Kissing is very important step while going towards sexual intercourse. Therefore, first kiss between husband and wife is considered very important. Kiss is a symbol, which hints a man that he can establish sexual relation with the woman whom he kissed.  A woman, whom a man kissed, will surrender her body before the man for sexual intercourse.  

However, this thing is not true for all the women of the world. Kissing is the symbol of greeting too in many countries as in India we give our greetings by saying namaste when we meet to someone. In western countries, a mother kisses her son and father kisses his daughter. Thus, kissing has no importance in these countries in the reference of sex.  

Kissing has great importance in dalliance. Some sexologists say that if both husband and wife do not kiss to each other deeply, long and proper sexual intercourse cannot give orgasm. An experienced person feels new taste and pleasure in every kiss even though he has kissed his wife hundred times. New kiss brings new kinds of pleasure to such kind of person.

When a man kisses his wife, he does not press the lips of his wife with his lips but he inserts his tongue into her mouth between her lips and clutches her mouth in this way that marks of his teeth may appear on the lips of his wife. The woman gets much sexual pleasure when her husband does so although there is a little pain too.

Kissing should not be limited only for a woman's lips. A man can kiss on different portions of a woman’s body. Such body organs are as behind the ear, cheeks, chin, and neck, behind the neck and on the breast. Both husband and wife get great pleasure when husband presses the cheeks and breast of his wife with his teeth.

People, who are not aware about the kinds of kissing, kiss on different body organs of women vividly. There are two aims of kissing first is giving pleasure for both husband and wife and second arousing to each other. One thing cannot be said definitely that kissing on a particular organ arouses sexual urge very much in a person. Some women are aroused by kissing on cheeks and some are aroused by kissing on the thighs or between the thighs. Many women are aroused by pressing the breast. A woman becomes more excited if her husband kisses on her body part where she wants a kiss. A woman removes her body part herself if she does not like a kiss on a particular body part.

There is another kind of kiss, which is called ‘kissing on the lips’ (adhar-amritpan). In this kind of kiss, a man keeps on sucking his wife’s lower lips by embracing her in his arms. Both husband and wife get excessive sexual pleasure in this kind of kiss. It is different from the other kinds of kisses and gives strange kind of pleasure.   

It has been cleared now that there are several kinds of kiss. Both husband and wife keep on absorbing in each other’s love through kiss. They find out different kinds of kiss day by day because man and woman become nervous because of same kind of kissing. This is the reason that change in kissing becomes must as the time passes. Here one thing is necessary to clear that stealing a kiss is more pleasurable than a normal kiss. It means is that generally, a woman is kissed by calling her but here we are mentioning kissing stealthily. It means that a man should kiss his wife when she is busy in any work. The husband should take a kiss stealthily by embracing his wife in his arms. The woman will shudder because of limitless pleasure if a man kisses his wife in this way. 

When both husband and wife start their married life, the woman does not step first due to shame or shyness but she wants that her husband may do all the activities. When a man kisses all over the body of his wife, she says nothing by mouth but expose all the gestures, which show her consent. A man should be aware that a woman does not arouse only by kissing. A man becomes excited soon than a woman. When a man kisses to his wife or touches her different body organs, he arouses fully and thinks that his wife has been aroused too but it is not true. To sum up, one thing is clear that man arouses soon than the woman.

The man starts to make sexual relation without arousing his wife properly. His wife says nothing about it because of shame. He involves in sexual intercourse at that time when his wife is arousing. The woman becomes aroused fully but his husband ejaculates. The man thinks that his wife will have been satisfied because he has been satisfied. The woman remains unsatisfied. The woman thinks that his husband has been suffering from any sex disease or he has lost his masculinity.  The truth is that there is no disease in the man and he has full masculinity. In this case, a man should not start sexual intercourse until the woman arouses fully. A man should penetrate his penis into the vagina of a woman when he is sure that woman is fully aroused.

Arousing a woman is must before making sexual relation. Sexual urge of a woman can be aroused by touching a body organ of a woman, by kissing or pressing the breast. This thing can be known only by experience. Each woman arouses on different ways. Therefore, a man should be aware about the fact that which special body organ of a woman is too sensitive. Sometimes it happens that a woman arouses by touching or pressing a definite body part whereas another woman does not arouse by touching the same body organ but feels pain. This problem can be solved if the woman tells about it to the man without hesitation. 

There is a need to be careful while arousing a woman for sexual intercourse. Several women want that their body parts should be touched and caressed gently. Besides it, many women want that their body organ should be rubbed or licked forcibly. They get great sexual pleasure in it.

The techniques mentioned above to arouse a woman are applied on the man too. Testes of man are too sensitive and many men feel great joy when his wife touches them gently. The woman should touch testes very gently and with the tips of fingers. If a woman does so, both man and woman get much sexual pleasure.

Uncontrollable sexual urge are produced in both a man and woman when they touch to each other body gently. When a man kisses woman’s genitals or rubs her thighs gently, she hints to the man to press her breast and touches her breast close to the man because of excessive sexual urge. She wants that her husband may press or rubs her breast. A woman gets limitless joy when her husband does these kinds of activities.  

A man should caress or tickle the vagina and vulva during dalliance. It is very essential to arouse a woman sexually. A woman can be aroused by inserting finger into the vagina. Sometimes, a woman should rub or tickle to the penis of a man to arouse a man. When a man is exhausted and he does not want to make sexual relation but her wife is excited very much and wants to make sexual relation, the woman should play with the penis of the man by griping or touching it into the fits tightly. A woman has to arouse a man by playing with the penis of her husband when symptoms of impotence have been appearing in a man.   

Besides it, a woman can play with the penis of her husband only for joy. In this case, the man should not say to the woman to do so but the woman should start playing with the penis first. When a woman grips his penis, the man should press her breast by embracing her in his arms. Kissing keeps on continue during this period too. The woman presses the penis tightly because of excessive sexual urge.

Kissing is very essential for inexperienced women before the sexual intercourse. Here it means to say that a man should kiss to the woman who is inexperienced about sexual relation before establishing sexual relation. A man should touch all the body organs of the woman after ending her hesitation fully. If one man does this work in hurry, he ejaculates soon while sexual urge of a woman are not aroused fully. In this way, the man goes to sleep after sexual intercourse but his wife remains unsatisfied. Several women never get orgasm all over their married life because of this reason.   

If a man is not familiar to the woman and both do not understand to each other properly, a man needs a much carefulness and understanding. Here it means to say that if the woman has no knowledge about sex, the man should start dalliance with good understanding. He should kiss his wife for some time before establishing sexual relation. A man should not kiss his wife repeatedly viz continuous kissing is not good. The man should touch to the hair, cheeks and hands of the woman while kissing. Thereafter, he should kiss on her lip and neck. He should talk with her lovingly along with kissing.   

When a man feels that his wife is becoming bold, he should press her breast gently but breast should not be gripped by the hands. The man should rub the breast and cheeks gently continuously. Thereafter, the man should suck the lips of the women by embracing her in his lips. Breasts of the woman should be rubbed continuously while doing so. After sometime, the man should grip the breast of the woman gently along with kissing. Now, if the man grips the breast of the woman tightly, she will show no objection. Touching or pressing of the breast should be done without uncovering bodice. Remember one thing here that sweet gossip should be continued during dalliance.

After pressing and rubbing to the breast of the woman, the man should kiss on her lips lovingly by embracing her in his arms. This is the time when the man can uncover the bodice of the woman. It is very good and successful formula to reach the breast of the woman. 

After pressing and rubbing the breast, the man should rub near about her thighs, belly and naval. Finally, the man should touch the vagina with his hand. According to sexologists, thighs of a woman open themselves when a man touches the soft and tender area near about vagina by his hands lovingly. The result of it is that vagina becomes wet because of a kind of secretion and blood circulation in the body becomes high.

Vagina of the woman opens itself and the touch of man produce a new kind of sensation in the vagina. At this time, the clitoris of the woman becomes too much excited. If a man touches clitoris two or three times, she loses her control over sexual desires. This is the time to a man to insert his penis into the vagina for sexual intercourse. Stroking of the penis into the vagina provides much sexual pleasure. A man should not draw his penis from the vagina fully but it should remain inside of the vagina.  

A woman should be aroused fully by the man before sexual intercourse with the help of techniques mentioned above. Penis and vagina should be wet before sexual intercourse. The penis can be inserted into the vagina easily if both penis and vagina are wet. If both are dry, penis and vagina can be scratched by rubbing to each other during sexual intercourse. Some persons use oil or lubricant for easy sexual intercourse.

Try to end the fear of a woman who is making sexual relation on the first time. It is the duty of a man. The woman should be aroused by the help of kissing and touching and this is the time to end the fear of the woman. Sometimes, many women become terrified by seeing an excited penis. They think that their vagina will not bear the length and size of the penis.  This is the reason that many women become unconscious by seeing the erect penis. Therefore, it is clear here that both man and woman should be fully aware about the genitals of each other. There should be no misconceptions in the mind of both man and woman.   

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